Posted by: dcmanlyman | December 9, 2009

Online Dating & Sex

I will give credit where credit is due, I regularly view several D.C. blogs, and a post by Lemmonex that wondered why more guys don’t blog left me to pondering my own five year existence in D.C. and what I might have to say.  It just so happens that I have ample time at work to screw around, and this I felt this is a  potentially more productive avenue to do so.

This past weekend I went on a second date with a girl I met on Match.com.   The date went well and ended back at her place.  The first date, it just so happens, ended at my place and we engaged in a session of bedroom rodeo then as well.  Now, I was not going into either date expecting sex (well maybe date number two), but I was particularly charismatic and it happened.  I genuinely liked this girl and intended to continue seeing her whether or not  sex was immediately involved.  Today I received an email stating that she had noticed I had been on Match.com since our last date and she is “not comfortable with sleeping with someone who apparently is still looking for other women.” I emailed back saying that I did not realize that two dates constituted an exclusive committed relationship, and was sorry that she felt that way as I thought there was a possibility of something real.

So is this normal female behavior? Do all women expect guys to stop pursuing other women as soon as they have sex with them?

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Responses

  1. Thanks for the kudos.

    And no. This woman is delusional.


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